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Post by F.L. on Aug 15, 2011 13:13:48 GMT -5
Sorry guys if I'm not coming much in the forum, I have some deep important personal problems, which screws a lot of my life... which mean I'm always doing stuffs late, never doing anything that important or whatever... I would like to talk about it but it's just too much personal... and it isn't a big deal, but simply difficult to solve!
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Post by Project-Diddy on Aug 15, 2011 14:37:21 GMT -5
That's fine, it's completely understandable. :3
We all go through problems like that, and.. it's important to focus on fixing those before you do anything else. :3
Which, incidently, is why I haven't been on as much as I would have. I'd like to deal with a few problems I'm having before I can concentrate on this forum again. So yeah. :3
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Post by Śp̨͡ê` (҉) on Aug 16, 2011 5:04:44 GMT -5
Hmm, it seems this kind of stuff never really happens to me, but it does to everyone around me...
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Post by Suicide on Aug 16, 2011 5:13:16 GMT -5
I think that I'm focusing on other things, so I'm not up with the forum as well.
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Post by F.L. on Aug 22, 2011 14:29:36 GMT -5
Well, it seems like it gets worst! I would like to talk about it but I'm just not sure of my stuffs... Maybe I'll talk about it one time!
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Post by Śp̨͡ê` (҉) on Aug 23, 2011 2:31:07 GMT -5
Hmm yeah, I seem to be the only one still here some of the time with everyone having these personal problems!
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Post by F.L. on Aug 23, 2011 7:22:48 GMT -5
Well I'm gonna say it, I'm in love with a girl on xbox-live, so yeah it's pretty complicated... We're not like simply loving us for no reasons, we are having some deep feelings and we want to see each others... However none of us can move out since it's 3 hours with a vehicul... Plus, she's not in age to decide these stuffs, she's 14, and in my side, I got the school, my familly, I got everything! So well we're simply planning to wait and see what destiny will give us... Now it was getting worst because I realized after she got enough of it that there's stuffs I'm not doing right, like when I ask her to leave her friends to come with me... I didn't realized it and I truly regret it... I tryed to apologize, it seems to work but she still got some trouble... I just hope it'll get back to the way it was, when we loved each others...
So that's it I've said it to you!
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Post by Suicide on Aug 23, 2011 11:37:07 GMT -5
Since F.L. took it off his chest, then I would like to do the same. When it comes to girls, then I'm not the right guy at all, they tend to hate me for some reason or another. Anyhow, everyone tend to dislike me, because they think I'm odd and I don't fit their groups. I've been thinking about all that lately, so my mood is away from the forum, unfortunately. However, I will try to keep up with the forum as much as I can  |
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Post by F.L. on Aug 23, 2011 11:45:36 GMT -5
Right I understand... Well the most important thing is friends! Once you feel like you're with good friends, everything gets better...
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Post by Suicide on Aug 23, 2011 11:48:31 GMT -5
And so the problem that I don't have them, or I might have very few of them.
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Post by F.L. on Aug 23, 2011 13:27:38 GMT -5
...well I'll ask you something but it's quite personnal... What's your age, because it might be somewhat normal at the stade that you are, some people tend to always think for themselves at a certain stade!
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Post by Suicide on Aug 23, 2011 16:10:10 GMT -5
I'm 14, but in my age, people have a lot of friends, unlike me.
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Post by Śp̨͡ê` (҉) on Aug 24, 2011 4:40:23 GMT -5
I have never had very many friends either. I made about 3 real friends and that was it. They've been my friends for so many years though... I don't feel like I need any more. I never have needed any more... I mean certainly you must have at least one good friend, right? Someone who has been your friend for a few years, or not even that is necessary. Just someone who'd be there for you. Something to remember though, is that it is way better to have a few close friends then crowds of people you may call your 'friends'. Those are not the kind of people who really care... F.L., something very similar to that has actually happened to someone I (kinda) know. (Even though we don't know each other well he still told me the story, it just came up in conversation...) He met this girl on Xbox Live as well (Weird coincidence? Especially since he told me this story just like 2 days ago...), and she lived very far away from him. Eventually one of her parents got a job someone else or something, and they had to move. She actually ended up in a town right next to the city this guy lives in, and they even ended up going to the same school. They saw each other there and were surprised (obviously...) (They knew what each other looked like because they had talked on Skype and stuff, with the video chat thing). And they didn't even know that would happen. She knew the name of the town she was moving to, and knew the name of the city the guy lives in, but she didn't know they were right next to each other. And she never actually told him that she was moving for whatever reason. Probably just never came across her mind to say anything about it, or maybe she thought he wouldn't really care that she was moving, if it wouldn't really change anything. But the main thing here is that they ended up together, when they thought they never would. I mean if you believe in fate or anything, maybe that same thing, or something like it will happen to you. I also find it very weird that this guy told me this story just two days ago. And I hadn't even talked to this guy in several weeks, and this was the first time in a long while. This is actually starting to feel like more than a coincidence, even for me!.  Ahh, once again it feels so weird that everyone's lives are SO much more complicated than mine. My life is pretty plain. (That is a reference to something, you are 707411y 1337 if you get it. Heh heh.) But seriously, nothing like this ever goes on in my life. I mean, not like I'm complaining, I love my life and this kind of stuff doesn't sound like a whole lot of fun. But really, it's just so odd to me. I almost feel like I'm 'being left out'. Anyways, hope I could help. People sometimes tell me I am good at this kind of stuff. But other times people tell me I just makes things worse...  |
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Post by F.L. on Aug 24, 2011 9:18:17 GMT -5
Spe, that was the most crazyest thing you ever told me!!! You just did something in my life and yes I've met the girl on skype but never saw her in real life and she doesn't move...
And suicide, at your age, everyone thinks for themselves, so it's nromal to have difficulties joining a groupe, I've passed this too 4 years ago, at your age!
Can't talk muich right now sorry!!!
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Alright I came back and I got some more time!!! Spe, what you said is simply awesome! It gave me even more courage in faith, and approved something that surprised me: everything links to her!!! I mean, the xbox, my school, the cadets, my job, my childhood, and now this!!!!!!!!! Even the games links!!! Stick-arena, where I got my idea of Live Eradication and started a taste for the xbox live. Smileys-war, where I've met you and you finished to shoot me something awesome like that! Myninjakiwi, where I've been able to pick up some ego by beeing the 3rd best builder and helped me to get closer to the society, which means than otherwise I wouldn't had the balls to talk to her. Halo, where I've met here! Thing-thing, where I developped the taste for forums, which mean you wouldn't put something like above! Minecraft, where were both to play on it, so definitly we'll be on minecraft, and no I didn't found anything for incredibots! Maybe it improved me at making awesome stuffs in halo! Don't know... So yeah it's pretty crazy! I'm like freaking up here!!!!!
And now suicide, as I told, it's normal! kids at your age usually don't care about other kids, so what I'm telling is that you should see a difference soon! Just try speaking to some people that seems smart enough and you should be fine! Friends will come soon, I've been in a situation like that too!
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Post by Śp̨͡ê` (҉) on Aug 25, 2011 3:53:59 GMT -5
Wow, even when writing that I didn't realize how big of a link that is going on here! And too add one more thing to Minecraft, I knew this guy that told me the story because we met on a Minecraft server a few weeks ago; in fact it was the same server we were both on when he told me this whole story! And even Incredibots links into this, because I first heard of Minecraft from the IB Forums, and if I hadn't ever known about Minecraft I never would have heard that story from that guy! Ohh, I'm even starting to get a bit freaked out from this whole thing, how all this ties together like that. I love how stuff like this just *happens*, everything just comes together so perfectly in so many ways. Very interesting. Well I'm glad anyways that I could help out like that! Makes me feel like I accomplished something. |
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Post by F.L. on Aug 25, 2011 8:58:21 GMT -5
Lol omg you're not the only one which seems to see that everything links up!!! IT'S CRAZY!!! XD
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Post by Project-Diddy on Aug 25, 2011 13:52:45 GMT -5
Blimey. At least I'm not the only one with such problems.
And, since everyone is getting their's off of their chests, I may as well also:
I found myself attracted to a friend (male) at my school. I'm not one to throw around the word "love" without due reason, and with previous experiences I'm very unwilling to call it love. However, suffice it to say that one of my best friends tells me that it's obvious that I've "fallen for him" (in her own words), and it would seem that I fulfill all definitions of "love" that I can think of as applying.
Regardless, emotional involvement complicates things to the extent where simple logical progressions no longer seem simple enough to draw conclusions from, and hence I still refuse to admit that I'm in love with him.
Regardless, this attraction has been going on for a long time now. With the wonderful gift of hindsight, it was evidently about two or two-and-a-half years (starting in mid-year 10/year 11 D&T lessons). I kept silent about it until recently, which screwed with my mind an awful lot; moreover he was a rather flirtatious character and would be rather intimate with me during these D&T lessons.
Recently this year (year 12), more specifically Feb., it caused my girlfriend and I, of two-years, to break up. I still, at that time, hadn't accepted that I liked Alex, but she was adamant that I did - and with the gift of hindsight, I did. Of course, it wasn't a simple, clean break, but a messy tear which took several months before I knew it was over for sure (due to irrational behaviour on the part of myself and my girlfriend).
Since then, I've racked up the courage to tell him how I feel about him, and being the understanding bastard that he is, he's fine about it. Of course, my recent inactivity was centred around the fact that, earlier this week, I asked him out.
And we decided that we will go out later in the year, after school-work becomes a little less intense. :3 And even though I gave him numerous opportunities to simply turn me down completely, he kept saying that we can go out a little while in the future and that he would enjoy that. >:3
Naturally, putting aside my curiousity and worry as to when "a little while in the future" is (because I asked him to simply tell me when he feels the workload is small enough to plausibly juggle having a boyfriend as well), and also ignoring the copious amounts of work I actually have to do in the coming year, all is well now! And I should be active again! :3
tl;dr hurr durr i'm gay and want a boyfriend
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Post by Śp̨͡ê` (҉) on Aug 26, 2011 2:07:00 GMT -5
Well, first of all welcome back! I don't really know what to say on this matter, as I have no experience in this topic whatsoever. I dunno why, but homosexuality is very rare where I live. I have only ever communicated with one gay person on the internet once, on a video game chatroom with several other people. He was a nice guy though. Although I do have one thing to say; the tl;dr at the end made me laugh and choke on my soda. |
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Post by Suicide on Aug 26, 2011 2:54:19 GMT -5
PD, that was tl;r - too long; read  It is interesting. I think we should also have some sort of life skills thread so we can share more things out there, rather than tossing our experiences here in the B/L and such threads. |
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Post by F.L. on Aug 26, 2011 12:01:35 GMT -5
Well it is a complicated thing! And also the fact that it's not like you should say to everyone, it's simply not in the entire society and having a couple is quite difficult, especially at what you're in...
I'll talk more later, don't have time I'm on a classroom!!!
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So yeah PD, the best thing is to keep cool with what you! Simply be friend with those you interest on and look for sights, I can't tell much if relations so rare can be powerfull, but I wish those to you! All you need is someone with the same passions than you and which you feel comfortable with!
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